It's just sad that people will think that way about you when they have absolutely not a clue what you've been through.
They judge - accordingly to their standards and views of life.
We all come from a different environment, face different encounters. What I do, why I think the way that I do, is not something I can freely choose. When you see what I see, when you feel what I feel, you will probably understand why I am me.
Not that I've committed anything that I'm not proud of.
I am not ashamed of holding on to what I believe in because I don't wish to have a life filled with the same old problems that I have now.
So, please put yourself in my shoes before you criticise and judge.
I, am not you.